The Best Advice I Can Give Anyone: Don't Be Afraid To Be Fabulous...............
Well, it took over 40 years for my own, personal "Ah-Hah" moment.
And I just was blessed with it being given to me in the last couple of weeks.
Have you ever felt that something was always holding you back from your goals and dreams?
You probably felt it was fear, right?
Afraid of failure? Well that would seem to make sense. At first.
Although one might attribute failure to things like embarrassment or shame, the funny thing is, those two emotions actually come together at the same fork in the road: Fear of Being Fabulous
Ever wonder why those whom in your eyes you consider to be Fabulous became that way or stay that way?
Because they know that they DESERVE it.
Have I started hitting a nerve yet? I'll continue.
It's very important that you read on.
It's much easier to plow through any sense of embarrassment or shame from a perceived failure by stating to the world "No problem. I'll get better. I'll make it. I'm unstoppable"
Plus, there is always some degree of comfort in the "hope" of the future.
But the key question is: How will others perceive you once you ARE Fabulous?
Once you're at the top of your game, will that once again lead you to feeling embarrassed, ashamed or undeserving to be at the top? Would you have any feelings of guilt once you're "arrived"?
Guilt from what it took to get there from those peers, friends and family members who have not "made it" so far?
Have I struck another nerve yet?
And here's the MOST IMPORTANT THING I WANT YOU TO WALK AWAY FROM THIS BLOG WITH:
You're doing NO service to everyone around you, the ones in your life, the ones you love, and the rest of the world by shrinking into modesty. If YOU have the ability to be FABULOUS, then it is your God-Given right and OBLIGATION to be FABULOUS for the sake of the rest of the world.
I SO hope that I have enlightened as least one person who has had that fire set to "pilot-light" mode for years to ignite it at full blast and become............
NO FEAR!! BE FABULOUS TO THE 100TH PERCENTILE YOU WERE BORN AND OBLIGATED TO BE. DO NOT LET THE POWERS THAT BE WHO HAVE BESTOWED UPON YOU YOUR FABULOUS ABILITIES TO BE DISAPPOINTED IN WHAT THEY HAVE GIVEN YOU TO PROVIDE TO THE REST OF THE WORLD.
THE POWERS THAT BE HAVE BESTOWED UPON YOU THE SEEDS OF FABULOUS THAT YOU MUST GROW WITHIN YOURSELF, SOW, AND REAP TO THE REST OF THE WORLD TO SHARE.
Don't concern yourself with how others will percieve your fabulous self. Already know that the road ahead lies envy, jealousy, resentment and more. All that means are those individuals have not hit their "Ah-Hah" moment yet, and this is their way of coping until they get there. The only way you can help them is to keep being your most fabulous self long enough for your flame to reach over to their pilot light some day.
If you're feeling a bit teary-eyed at this moment, then............congratulations. You've just made your breakthrough.
NOW USE IT, AND DON'T EVER LOOK BACK!
In fact, I'm going to start a weekly or bi-weekly blog series titled "How Were You Fabulous This Week" to give you all a spring board to set you on your road to be:
And you're going to start doing it right here on ..................
